**Proverbs 22:25 – “Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered.”**
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ,
As a Christian minister, I am always drawn to the wisdom found in the book of Proverbs. This particular verse, Proverbs 22:25, speaks to the importance of surrounding ourselves with people who exhibit self-control and patience, rather than those who are quick to anger.
In life, we are constantly faced with choices about who we allow into our inner circle. The company we keep can have a profound impact on our own attitudes and behaviors. If we choose to surround ourselves with individuals who are easily angered, we may find ourselves being dragged down into negativity and strife. On the other hand, if we seek out friends who are slow to anger and quick to forgive, we are more likely to experience peace and harmony in our relationships.
The Bible is clear in its teachings about the importance of choosing our friends wisely. Proverbs 13:20 tells us, “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” Similarly, Proverbs 27:17 reminds us that “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” When we surround ourselves with people who exhibit godly characteristics, we are more likely to grow in our own faith and maturity.
It can be difficult to distance ourselves from friends or acquaintances who display hot-tempered behavior. We may fear being seen as judgmental or unkind. However, Proverbs 22:25 encourages us to prioritize our own well-being and spiritual growth above all else. By choosing to associate with those who embody the fruits of the Spirit – love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23) – we are aligning ourselves with God’s will for our lives.
In a world that often glorifies anger and confrontation, it can be challenging to live out the principles of Proverbs 22:25. However, as Christians, we are called to be counter-cultural. We are called to be peacemakers, to turn the other cheek, and to love our enemies. By following the wisdom found in Scripture, we can cultivate relationships that reflect the love and grace of our Savior.
As we navigate our daily interactions with others, let us remember the words of Proverbs 22:25. Let us seek out friends who exemplify the characteristics of Christ, and let us strive to be that kind of friend to others as well. May we be known for our patience, our forgiveness, and our love, so that others may see the light of Christ shining through us.
In closing, I leave you with the words of Proverbs 22:25 once again – “Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered.” Let us meditate on these words and allow them to guide us in our relationships with others. May we be intentional in choosing friends who help us grow in our faith and reflect the love of Christ to the world.
May God bless you and keep you always,
[Your Name]
**Proverbs 22:25 – “Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered.”**